The Book

Margit Novack’s award-winning memoir opens our eyes to the abundant possibilities of later life. She pairs profound and memorable personal stories with larger themes (downsizing, caregiving, forgiveness, estrangement and more) and shows that with the right perspective and “re-visioning”, the future is rich with possibility.

Realistic, compassionate, substantive and uplifting, Squint is a guidebook that leaves us better equipped for the years ahead.

“I couldn’t put it down, so I recommend you pick it up.”
Mary Kay Buysse,
Executive Director
National Association of Senior & Specialty Move Managers (NASMM)

“This positive, affirming book will inspire and guide people as they navigate the third age of life.”
Ken Dychtwald, Ph.D.
Author of What Retirees Want: A Holistic View of Life’s
Third Age
and Radical Curiosity: One Man’s Search for
Cosmic Magicg and a Purposeful Life

One of the most powerful ways to learn is through storytelling. Margit Novack has mastered the art.
Helen Dennis
Columnist, Author and Specialist on Aging and the New Retirement

Reviews of Squint

Link to GBO review of Squint

June 23, 2021

Recommended in the Books to Read section of the Human values in Aging newsletter.

Praise for Squint

“This positive, affirming book will inspire and guide people as they navigate the third age of life. At once both profound and comforting, Novack’s stories are as memorable as they are wise.”

—Ken Dychtwald, Ph.D., author of What Retirees Want: A Holistic View of Life’s Third Age and Radical Curiosity: One Man’s Search for Cosmic Magic and a Purposeful Life
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“This book is a well-written, thoughtfully crafted exploration of many aspects of aging. The wisdom shared and insights offered provide a delightful and poignant journey through the common experiences of the second half of life, including caregiving, creating a legacy, and changing relationships and roles. Well worth the read!.”

— Teepa Snow, Occupational Therapist and CEO of Positive Approach to Care®
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“Too many Americans don’t want to think about getting older, let alone look it in the eye. Squint, Margit Novack’s illuminating memoir, offers a wise and welcome alternative. Novack writes with grace about the hard stuff, the funny stuff, the complicated stuff—hell, it’s all complicated—and leaves her readers far better equipped for the years ahead.”

— Ashton Applewhite, author of This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism

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“Reflecting on her career as a Senior Move Manager, Margit Novack concludes that the objects we possess and let go have their real value as vessels for stories, even the difficult ones. As imperfect and impermanent as human lives are, the world will be better, she writes, for our passing those stories on.”

— David J. Ekerdt, Ph.D. Sociologist and Gerontologist, University of Kansas
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“Margit Novack’s delightful memoir, Squint: Re-visioning the Second Half of Life, opens our eyes wide to the abundant possibilities of later life. She pairs fascinating personal stories with larger themes (downsizing, caregiving, forgiveness, estrangement and more) to help us navigate the uneven terrain of aging. She generously offers her rich cache of memories as the treasures they are ­– not unlike the precious possessions of her many senior move clients through the years. Margit skillfully weaves the impactful people and events of her own 70-something life with need-to-know information about aging and retirement for everyone. I couldn’t put it down, so I recommend you pick it up. I hope Volume II is already in the works. When you meet Bubbie and Anya, you will too.”

— Mary Kay Buysse, Executive Director, National Association of Senior & Specialty Move Managers (NASMM)
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Squint Re-Visioning the Second Half of Life is about all of us and our own aging process, told masterfully through personal stories and solutions by author Margit Novack in her compelling, must-read book. If we want to understand how, once we reach midlife, moving forward is more important than looking backward, get ready to take notes. This book covers it all—from loss, to learning something new, staying current with technology, becoming a caregiver with insights and tricks, the importance of being needed, getting rid of sibling estrangements, cleverly dividing family treasures, downsizing and determining the legacy you want to leave.”

— Vicki Thomas, Chief Purpose Office, My Future Purpose
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“One of the most powerful ways to learn is through story telling. Margit Novack, author of Squint: Re-Visioning the Second Half of Life has mastered the art. As a pioneer in the move management industry, Novack examines her life and shares her personal stories that combine her experience, knowledge, resilience and insight sprinkled with humor to deliver profound and memorable messages about aging and the potential for growth and possibilities. This book is a gift that is realistic, compassionate, substantive and uplifting–telling it straight about aging and more. It’s a must read…and must have for an enlightening and joyful journey.”

— Helen Dennis, Columnist, Author and Specialist on Aging and the New Retirement
Prayer For Regret

Prayer For Regret

When my mother-in-law, Bubbie, died, I said to Bill, “Bubbie was such a big part of your life. I’m surprised you don’t talk about her more.” Bubbie was my best friend,” he replied,“but nothing was left unsaid or undone.” I thought to myself, “How lucky he is. When itcomes to people we love, how many of us have no regrets?

Fragile

Fragile

Most of us are “damaged and repaired” by the time we are old. Even though we’ve grown resilient, added pressure — from moving, illness, loss of loved ones, and more — can break us. Being vulnerable is being human.

Mental Hiccups

Mental Hiccups

I seem to have crossed an age thresh hold after which actions that were laughed at when younger are now taken seriously. When there is a mental hiccup now, it’s a source of worry. At 72, I know memory changes have been occurring for 20 years, so while I’m still me, I’m also not who I used to be.